Is "Love" a wonderful strong feeling? Is it possible to "love" ice cream?
Not the same definition of "Love"? OK, these are two different things. The first is a person to person thing. The second is a person to object thing. But, wait! Isn't loving ice cream a wonderful strong feeling? Aren't there people who "love" another person with the possessiveness and ownership of an object? ...
If you had never read it, if your buddy hadn't said it,
if the so called "respected" psychologist never did write about it being "healthy",
it still would have jumped into your brain anyway. The thought would have snaked and sneaked into your your consciousness. "It's natural." "It's no big deal." "It's testosterone." "It's just a harmless thought." "Everybody fantasizes!" ...